You Are At the Right Age BUT Why Are You Still Single?

You have a job, you know your career path. You have a business and you are a good person by heart but have you ever wonder or question yourself why you are still single? Admit it, there are times that we want to feel being wanted, feel being loved, being happy with that right person whom we dreamed of. All of us have different preferences and qualifications that we look for in a relationship. However, there are things that we do not know until we realize it. There are some reasons why you are still going solo and drink your favorite cup of coffee every morning alone.

1. You experienced traumatic or extremely bad relationships in the past

According to recent studies on psychology and relationships, when a person went through extremely negative relationship experience, he or she is most likely refrain from dating or entering into a new relationship.

2. You fear being rejected

I have known some male friends who are still single even though they are average-looking men. They over-think of not getting a chance to be appreciated with the women they admire the most and not confident to make the first move. I have also known beautiful women who are still single but are not that confident enough to express their true feelings towards someone. Physical appearance is not an issue, your mindset does. You might be one of them if you don’t give yourself a chance for new beginnings.

3. You are emotionally unavailable

It means you are not ready to open up your inner self to others. You are afraid to let people know your identity and imperfections.

4. You keep on waiting for your “the one”

Love is not always a fairy tale-like story that you have seen in the movies. A real relationship is having a connection between two imperfect people. It is not definitely based on experiencing a “spark” the day you both first met or keep on waiting without doing anything. It involves hard work, effort, openness and understanding.

5. You are not comfortable of having a commitment

We humans are naturally born as selfish beings. We always have the mindset of getting our personal goals done and own desires to be achieved. One of the reasons is simply you are not physically, financially and mentally prepared to partake into a relationship cycle. This is the reason why many people nowadays easily jump from one relationship or partner to another then decided to break up because of commitment. Some never really experience having a relationship because they simply don’t want to commit and prefer to do other things.

6. You have high standards

It is not bad to have a standard list of qualifications or requirements in finding a right partner, it’s your choice. However, you will have a hard time getting into a real relationship if you keep on dwelling on your principles and don’t consider other things. Remember, no one is perfect in this world.